tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26054166855794549822024-02-06T21:31:14.086-08:00BreakupLife.com - by Doe ZantamataLife after a breakup is an enormous emotional challenge. How to get over an ex, through the break up, and on with your life.DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-7903641031505220172014-04-28T05:46:00.001-07:002014-04-28T05:46:39.049-07:00Self Worth<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Recognize your own worth and you won't be drawn to those who don't see it. </div>
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Always be aware of your feelings. They are the voice of your intuition…your inner truth. </div>
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A lot of times in relationships, people are very happy and excited to be in something new, and are very complimentary and notice all the good little things. Then after awhile, especially in those who are insecure, they lose that initial "niceness" and instead begin to get comfortable. </div>
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Eventually, some start to seem to notice only the little things they don't like or that bother them, and have forgotten all about the good little things. </div>
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This can happen subtly over time, so it's good to keep track of your inner feelings at all times. If you notice not feeling right, don't second guess yourself or talk yourself out of it. Reflect on that feeling and what it means to you. </div>
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There are some people who feel that once a person is "hooked," they don't have to work anymore. The initial niceness was just a show. If you're convinced that how they were is how they are, you'll be disappointed. The only way they are that way is if someone is new and must be won. </div>
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Decide what you'd like in a relationship, what you really need, and what you just can't live without. Evaluate yourself on if you're giving those things. Evaluate your relationship on if those things are being given to you. Speaking up is a good thing, but if you have to speak up constantly about things that you honestly feel should be there because they were before, then it may mean that you're only in love with the persona your partner put on in the beginning of the relationship…not who they really are on a daily basis. </div>
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Of course everyone is on their best behavior in the very beginning, but there is a big, huge grey area. Be honest with yourself on if who they are is totally not who you thought they were. It may be that you fell in love with someone who didn't really exist after a few weeks. </div>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-75401472081124307332014-03-10T21:15:00.003-07:002014-03-10T21:15:37.195-07:00The apology that counts the most<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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You only need to hear and accept one apology, and it's not the one from the person who hurt you so many times. It is the one from yourself for keeping you there for so long.<br />
-Doe Zantamata</div>
DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-7352771087730328972013-11-20T20:23:00.003-08:002013-11-20T20:23:32.878-08:00Self Worth<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Without self-worth:<br /><br />"I'm doing my best and they don't like me. What's wrong with me?"<br /><br />With self-worth:<br /><br />"I'm doing my best, and they don't like me. What's wrong with them?"<br /><br />Remember, it's not called, "That person's approval-worth," it's called "self-worth."<br /><br />When you approve of yourself, you lose the need to prove it to anyone else.<br /><br />-Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-41384706053063919062013-11-15T13:01:00.001-08:002013-11-15T13:01:41.809-08:00One more try or enough is enough?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Take the pressure off of yourself with the following thought: There is no "wrong" action, just choices and consequences.<br />
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If you go back and it turns out to be the wrong thing, you'll know for sure. If you do not go back, you may always wonder if you should have given it one more go, or you may feel peace and relief of not having the anxiety for the same thing to happen again that had happened so many times.<br />
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There's a part in each that will be resolved in the outside world, and a part in each that needs to be and can only be resolved within you. If you feel hesitant, it could be intuition or at this point it could be self-protection/fear of not wanting to return to that which you know has the ability to cause you great pain.<br />
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Wherever you go, go fully. If you decide to go back, do so with optimism and not with anxiety. If you do not go back, move forward in life with curiosity to the new and not with regrets over the past. There is no wasted time and no wrong choices. Life is just a mix of loving and learning and in either choice,<br />
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-60122382806006221152013-11-14T21:55:00.002-08:002013-11-14T21:55:15.336-08:00A different person<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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It would have been a great relationship if he had been more considerate, if he had made you more of a priority, if he'd been much more honest, and if he had been much more kind. But if he'd have been all those things, he'd have been a different person. So accept him as he is and let him go. That will make room in your life for the person who is all those things because he chooses to be, not because you wish he would become them.<br />
~Doe Zantamata</div>
DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-61086225529728679572013-10-03T00:22:00.002-07:002013-10-03T00:22:34.743-07:00Guilt is a motivator<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-20068448329834987242013-09-04T22:47:00.001-07:002013-09-04T22:47:13.779-07:00Second bliss<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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First bliss comes naturally. Second bliss is a choice. It's the choice to trust, to love, to put yourself out there, knowing full well that you can get hurt. But you won't be able to live, love, and experience all the joys of life if you don't put yourself back out there again. It takes courage --a lot of courage-- but it's worth it.<br />
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-49250095656206136292013-08-27T08:35:00.006-07:002013-08-27T13:51:57.722-07:00An apology doesn't come with an eraser...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-66069675669560045392013-07-21T13:33:00.003-07:002013-07-21T13:33:38.806-07:00Red Flag: "You're too good for me."<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Red Flag:<br /><br />"You are amazing. I am so grateful to have you" are good compliments which show that a person recognizes your worth.<br /><br />"You're too good for me" is not a compliment. It's a red flag from someone who doesn't feel that they are good enough for you.<br /><br />For you to make sense in their world, they will begin to look for things that are wrong with you and point them out. This can be quite upsetting, as you'll go from someone who could do no wrong to someone who can do no right. Even the tiniest, most unimportant things will be criticized.<br /><br />Insecurity causes envy, spite, and being critical of others. You can't fix them, but you can avoid having your self-worth attacked by choosing not to pursue a relationship any further.<br /><br />~Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-34251009199993869862013-07-21T00:28:00.001-07:002013-07-21T00:28:37.995-07:00What did I see in that person?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">If you ever look back on a relationship and think,<br /><br />"What did I see in that person??"<br /><br />It could be that your mind saw a challenge,<br /><br />it could be that your heart thought it saw love,<br /><br />or it could be that your soul recognized an excellent teacher of self-worth.<br /><br />~Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-37137589894297559332013-06-23T09:55:00.005-07:002013-06-23T09:55:48.729-07:00Back and Forth<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Close your eyes for a few minutes, and think of a situation or relationship that’s been troubling you.</div>
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Imagine letting that relationship go.</div>
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Do you feel regret, or relief?</div>
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Use your answer to determine if it’s time to try something different to fix it, or if it’s just time to try something different.</div>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-13451503351681256142013-06-17T22:16:00.001-07:002013-06-17T22:16:48.796-07:00Little piece of your heart<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Looking for love can feel like searching for a missing piece of your heart.<br /><br />You will keep looking for that one special person who will complete you, until you finally realize that person is you.<br /><br />It's better to share a full heart with another person, rather than one that has a piece missing that they can never fill.<br /><br />~ Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-24479746217949101282013-06-17T03:36:00.003-07:002013-06-17T03:36:52.381-07:00The real question<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">If you really want an answer, stop asking,<br /><br />"Why am I being treated this way?"<br /><br />and ask instead,<br /><br />"Why am I putting up with this?"<br /><br />p.s. It's not "love."<br /><br /><br /><br />(~Doe Zantamata)</td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-875876425700507092013-05-26T13:30:00.000-07:002013-05-26T13:30:00.747-07:00Did they go back to their ex? <div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: large;">LET THEM GO.</span></div>
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They are either:</div>
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Are either of those qualities really ones that you want in a partner?</div>
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You may be tempted to try to win them back,</div>
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But you are not the one for them.</div>
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You are the one for the person who doesn’t need convincing</div>
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and who is emotionally available and completely present in your relationship,</div>
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not partially claimed by some unresolved ghosts from the past.</div>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-33734831068708267772013-04-26T17:26:00.004-07:002013-04-26T17:26:35.932-07:00Relationship.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-28956344373370418662013-01-02T22:33:00.002-08:002013-01-02T22:33:52.700-08:00It is what it is<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You just have to be as good as you know how to be.<br />
For some people, it won’t be enough.<br />You won’t be able to please them.<br />
For others, it will be too much.<br />They won’t think enough of themselves to accept all that you have to offer.<br />
So you let them go.<br />
It hurts, it makes you question yourself, it makes you feel like maybe this whole love and trust thing is overrated. or that it isn’t really possible.<br />
Once you get through that, you’re free.<br />
Free to be yourself, and free to be able to enjoy people for who they are for as long as the relationship adds to both of your lives. <br />
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Maybe it’s a week, maybe it will be forever, you can’t predict that from a smile. But whatever it is, it will always be worthwhile. <br />
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You love, you live, you learn. <br />
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There are no wasted moments.<br />
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-7949947945792968102012-12-28T04:30:00.001-08:002012-12-28T04:30:04.063-08:00End of the Line<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Sometimes you realize that it wasn’t worth fighting for afterall.<br />
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Hindsight is 20/20, but you can learn lessons from it. <br />
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Never fall in love with potential, and<br />
some investments don’t pay off.<br />
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Those lessons are not believed until they are realized first hand.<br />
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Once they are learned, you will know<br />them for life, and they won’t ever need to be learned again.<br />
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-50966648902199639012012-11-15T09:00:00.000-08:002012-11-15T09:00:02.882-08:00Dwell well.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">People don't often break up because everything is wonderful.<br />After a breakup, it's normal to temporarily forget the reasons why the relationship wasn't working. That's part of breaking the attachment of the bond that was formed. To move on, don't dwell on nice things that are lost. Dwell instead on nice things that have been gained through the separation...everything good that is in your life today.<br />
~Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-37406914239897248382012-10-31T21:51:00.004-07:002012-10-31T22:04:04.912-07:00Love and Acceptance<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Being yourself is the easiest thing in the world to do. <br />
Trying to be someone else requires constant effort. <br />
So why do we try to change to become who we think someone else wants instead? <br />
Realize that true love is only possible once you love and accept yourself fully.<br />
It is only then that you will be able to love and accept someone who does, too.<br />
~Doe Zantamata<br />
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-54196071021669812152012-10-09T01:19:00.003-07:002012-10-09T01:19:48.538-07:00Don't be someone's Plan F<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-36555115860118634552012-08-12T16:12:00.004-07:002012-08-12T16:12:48.337-07:00Expectations<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You can't expect to have a deep relationship with a shallow person. <br />
~Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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</div>DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-59434653175562635022012-07-28T23:11:00.002-07:002012-07-28T23:11:38.180-07:00Inside and Out<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">You cannot receive true love until you love yourself first.<br />
We see only a reflection of ourselves in other people.<br />
You will only accept the love that you feel inside.<br />If you don’t love yourself, you will think it’s love when someone treats you poorly, even though in your mind you may know you should be treated better. If you were treated better, you would lose interest because it would not match the feeling you have inside. We reject anything more than we feel we truly deserve. <br />Love yourself, accept yourself, and you will no longer be attracted to those who don’t treat you with love and kindness. Feel love, receive love.<br />
~Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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</div>DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-57335029025075757722012-07-26T22:03:00.001-07:002012-10-02T05:17:30.600-07:00Trust.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: small;">Finding out that you trusted someone who lied to you, cheated you, or otherwise deceived you, hurts. A lot.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">But don’t blame yourself for “not seeing the signs.”Thinking you’re stupid for trusting someone is like thinking someone is smart for not trusting someone.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Neither is true. Mistrust for no reason has ruined a lot of perfectly good relationships. If anything, that’s stupid.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">All you can do is your best, and your best is to trust someone until they’ve given you reason not to. If they mess that up, it’s their loss. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Trust is a wonderful thing. Never punish yourself for being wonderful. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">~Doe Zantamata</span></td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-20786472162806047532012-07-10T00:58:00.001-07:002012-10-02T05:17:55.565-07:00Promise.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">I can't tell you when, but I can promise you, it will get better, it will get easier, and it will all be worthwhile. Just promise me you won't ever give up. </td></tr>
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DoeZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01109623591286019227noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2605416685579454982.post-69517344902390426282012-06-24T20:59:00.002-07:002012-06-24T20:59:08.418-07:00No convincing<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Don't waste time trying to convince someone that they will regret losing you if they don't treat you better. The only time they will really believe you, is when they actually do. <br />
~Doe Zantamata</td></tr>
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