Relationship.
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It is what it is
You just have to be as good as you know how to be. For some people, it won’t be enough. You won’t be able to please them. For others, it will be too much. They won’t think enough of themselves to accept all that you have to offer. So you let them go. It hurts, it makes you question yourself, it makes you feel like maybe this whole love and trust thing is overrated. or that it isn’t really possible. Once you get through that, you’re free. Free to be yourself, and free to be able to enjoy people for who they are for as long as the relationship adds to both of your lives. Maybe it’s a week, maybe it will be forever, you can’t predict that from a smile. But whatever it is, it will always be worthwhile. You love, you live, you learn. There are no wasted moments. ~Doe Zantamata
End of the Line
Sometimes you realize that it wasn’t worth fighting for afterall. Hindsight is 20/20, but you can learn lessons from it. Never fall in love with potential, and some investments don’t pay off. Those lessons are not believed until they are realized first hand. Once they are learned, you will know them for life, and they won’t ever need to be learned again. ~Doe Zantamata
Dwell well.
People don't often break up because everything is wonderful. After a breakup, it's normal to temporarily forget the reasons why the relationship wasn't working. That's part of breaking the attachment of the bond that was formed. To move on, don't dwell on nice things that are lost. Dwell instead on nice things that have been gained through the separation...everything good that is in your life today. ~Doe Zantamata
Love and Acceptance
Being yourself is the easiest thing in the world to do. Trying to be someone else requires constant effort. So why do we try to change to become who we think someone else wants instead? Realize that true love is only possible once you love and accept yourself fully. It is only then that you will be able to love and accept someone who does, too. ~Doe Zantamata
Don't be someone's Plan F
THEIR PLAN A) see if friend who is always busy is free B) see what other friends are up to C) long phonecall with person who breaks up, or needs to vent about their relationship at least once a week D) errands/last minute plans/nap E) "can't miss" game/movie/show on tv F) spend time with you Don't be someone's Plan F. If you're not important enough to them to be plan a or b, they shouldn't be important enough to you to sit around waiting until they have nothing better to do than spend time with you. You're more important than that... even if they don't ever see it. Always remember that.
