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No convincing

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Don't waste time trying to convince someone that they will regret losing you if they don't treat you better. The only time they will really believe you, is when they actually do. ~Doe Zantamata

Shift in focus

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It's not that I don't care anymore, it's just that I'm choosing to focus instead on other things. Things that don't bother me. Things that allow me to be happy. ~Doe Zantamata Even after you've sorted through all your feelings. Even after you realize that the relationship wasn't right for you, even after you realize it's best that it ended....you'll likely still not be "over it" for awhile. You didn't go from being 100% happy and content in the relationship to unhappy, and you won't be able to go from 100% unhappy and discontent being single to being happy. Emotions don't work that way. You'll still get little triggers of memories out of the blue that when you think about them this time, you'll reflect and think differently. You may even feel some anger today about a memory from the past where no anger was felt at the time. Be patient with yourself. Allow your mind and your heart to go through this proces