Start the day off right

Waking up in the morning, your mind is at peace.
Within a split second, all the memories of yesterday come rushing back in.
Choose to take a few minutes and think of all the great things that are in your life right now.
Keep your mind busy with as many great “right now” thoughts as you can.
~Doe Zantamata

 

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