What did I see in that person?

If you ever look back on a relationship and think,

"What did I see in that person??"

It could be that your mind saw a challenge,

it could be that your heart thought it saw love,

or  it could be that your soul recognized an excellent teacher of self-worth.

~Doe Zantamata

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